Tuesday, 19 August 2008

The secret....

.....is not a secret anymore! I can tell you now what it was that I was blethering on about the day before yesterday. I am sooo excited!


We all have, if we are very lucky, a friend or two in our lives who we can really really count on and I have been very lucky
to have always had good friends who have stood by me despite my not always being the er... the 'easiest' of people to deal with along the way sometimes, but I have one friend who probably knows me better than almost anyone else on this planet.

For almost five years now we have shared just about every aspect of our lives on a daily basis, the ups and downs of what have for both of us been a pretty turbulent period in our lives one way and another, I doubt we have any secrets from one another and no matter if it's 3 in the morning or a more civil hour, if I need her or just want to share something with her she is there!

We met via blogging, a chance in a million (or however many blogs there is out there in the blogosphere these days) when she posted something about a cat and I mailed her a response instead of commenting...and that was that, we became friends. I wouldn't like to hazard a guess at how many emails we have sent between us, on an average day it can run into tens, it has been literally a five year ongoing conversation, almost everyday about everything, no matter where we are one way or another the wonders of technology keep the 'conversation' up and running!

Anyone who knows me well knows who I am talking about, even the few individuals I know who can be pretty skeptical about the 'validity' of internet friendships, refer to her and enquire after her, as though she lived just down the street but she doesn't, she lives in Nebraska in the U.S and for those of you who don't know who I am talking about it is LISA, she of Lisa's Place....and what's all the excitement and secrecy about?

Well, circumstances and luck have conspired and worked in our favour...... and one very early morning at the beginning of October she will land on a flight from the U.S. at London Heathrow and finally we will meet!!!!

I am just sooooo excited! Ever since it began to look like it might actually happen I have been bouncing up and down like a small over-excited child, I can't believe it! We always planned to meet up but life being how it is we never imagined that it would happen anytime soon but it has, and much plotting and planning later it looks like we can finally have a conversation over a beer instead of over the internet and real American pancakes for breakfast!!!!

32 Comments:

Melissa said...

Wow! I'm so excited for you. I can't wait to see a photo of the two of you together.

Anonymous said...

:-)))

It is "quite" good isn't it? :-P

There will be plenty of photos and I'm sure there will be plenty of blogging, picasaing and Twittering - and this is not the last time she is coming over either - guaranteed!

gemmak said...

Melissa: Lol...I suspect you will be bored of seeing them! heh.

Punctuation: :o)))) I'm counting on it! heh.

Anonymous said...

Fantastic news. How exciting for both of you.
I look forward to hearing about the meeting.

Anonymous said...

Good news!

I assume you used the American way of spelling sceptical in honour of your friend? Or should I say buddy? :)

zoe said...

Lucky you! I'd be just as excited too - there's a certain somebody that I'd like to meet to. I bet you'd never guess who though ;)

Anonymous said...

Oh, I'm so excited for you! My best friend, Tennessee Jenn, is American (no prizes for guessing that one, huh? LOL) and we met online talking about greyhounds and Johnny Depp. She isn't a blogger, though occasionally she'll leave a comment on mine.

The first time we met I flew over to Delaware for a greyhound gathering at Dewey Beach that she had persuaded me to attend. We each joked about the other possibly being an axe murderer, but in fact we were exactly as we'd expected. Jenn and I talk every day and I love her to bits. I hope you and your online buddy have as much fun as we do when we meet!

bulldog said...

I can absolutely verify that Lisa is NOT an axe murderer - well, except for spiders . . .

Ndinombethe said...

Brilliant news!!!!!!!!

Sage said...

Nothing better than meeting the real person, a friend in the US that I have been writing with for over 10 years came over last year and we had a great 5 days. We hope to repeat the experience.

Have a great time getting to know each other and have fun.

Lisa said...

i have given up using axes with spiders. it just makes too many dents in the walls!

Thanks for the wonderful post. I can't wait! Is it October yet? :)

Kitty said...

Oooh lucky you and Lisa :)

I've been lucky enough to meet up with many internet friends over the years and it's always good fun.

BenefitScroungingScum said...

Lovely news, I'm so pleased for you

Kate said...

That's great Jane hope you will have a whale of a time ! Gosh your excitement is bubbling up through me PC...
Love Kate x.

Unknown said...

It'll be great!! Zoe...me?

C. said...

Oh honey, I am SO excited for you! I know how you must be feeling, I have a friend I've talked to for about three years now from on-line and feel the same way about! I can't wait to hear about the stories and the hugs and the love!!! YEAH YOU! I am SO thrilled, thrilled, thrilled!

Anonymous said...

But I hate Americans!!!! ;O)))

gemmak said...

Pawpads: I can't wait!

Norman: of course! ;o)

Zoe: Bet I would!! ;o)

Jay: Lol....Lisa an axe murderer, noooo. :o)

Bulldog: Spider axe murderers are positively encouraged! ;o)

Lisa: Dent the walls! Nearly October...nearly..... ;o)



Tash: Ain't it :o))

Sgae: actually it feels like we have met already, I often think I can't believe we haven't!

Kate: Lol..you are the only other blogger (apart from the obvious of course) that I have met thus far for real..it was fun wasn't it :o)

Benefitscroungingscum: :o))

Kate: Lol..honestly I'm like a kid in a sweet shop!

gemmak said...

John.g: How did you guess?! ;o)

Dragonfly dreaming: Yayyy, I am so so so excited. I hope you get to meet ur friend too soon :o)

Fletch: Lol...that's ok, she's not coming to see you!...and you aren't obliged to eat the pancakes! ;o) heh.

Lisa said...

Fletch - lol... An American is going to be staying in your flat..here and there... You have 6 weeks to get used to the idea. Besides, I'm making pancakes. What's not to like? :)

Anonymous said...

OOOh lucky you! I'm sure you'll have a great time. Looking forward to hearing all about it.

Anonymous said...

I am SO happy for you! I know how long you've been waiting. It was meant to be : )

Anonymous said...

Is something happening in October? What did I miss?

p.s. I hate Americans too.

No, wait, that's not right is it...

Anonymous said...

^ (shaking head at boyfriend. It's ok, honey.. go back to sleep!)

Mr. Nighttime said...

Wow, that is terrific! I am hoping that I have that luxury one day of meeting some of the folks I have met here in the blogverse. For the most part, everyone has been very nice and supportive...There are always a few who aren't, but hey, that is life you know.

Lisa - REAL pancakes? I hope you are bringing REAL maple syrup to slather on them?

We had a friend over her from the UK back in 2000 that never had American pancakes before, much less real maple syrup. He thought he died and went to heaven.

Anonymous said...

Yes, real pancakes. I've been told Tesco has maple syrup. :) I hope it's the same. I was informed the bacon is not.. unless it's streaky bacon. Ours is sugar/maple cured.

bulldog said...

I didn't realize until today that pancakes have a nationality.

Mr. Nighttime said...

"I didn't realize until today that pancakes have a nationality."

Hey, at least we didn't call them "Freedom cakes..."

bulldog said...

They couldn't be called freedom cakes because the poster lady for the first pancake mix in the US was an ex-slave (Nancy Green.)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aunt_Jemima

Thus endeth pancake history for today. :o}

gemmak said...

Lol..I'm glad we've got that sorted guys! ;o)

Lisa said...

I learned early on that British pancakes are really more like crepes. :)

Trac said...

Excellent stuff.

Just don't let her give you grits for breakfast! :O)

Haha - the last time I mentioned GRITS in someone's comments box, it lead to several Americans all saying how wonderful it was.

Don't believe them.